Well it is all about realisations you see.
Tauseef, as I was wished that I needed a group of good friends, as time passed by I realised that there are very few who care for relationships and the rest are just people who you dont need so much to care about. You cant associate your happiness to their presence or absense. I came off it and then was a stage when I thought I needed someone to love me, someone I’d really connect to and share all my feelings. I thought that would make me happy.
Well I dont say we dont need friends or people who love us. It is just I dont want to say that my happiness depends on them being with me, or thier positive presence in my life.
I am as happy as I should be, all you need is just the will to be happy.
I still remember those lonely times I used to sulk, wondering why no one would give me a call or no one would say “I was missing you.”. That should never mean I am not a good guy. I am a good guy, as good as you’d expect a good friend to be. I say it because I know it. I know it because people say it and people say it because I am.
Well its all that I want to be happy and it is as simple as that. I want to be and when I want something I a right behind it, not gonna leave until I get it.
My happiness is in doing what I want to do. Well making others happy is just a part of the day, you try to make them happy, if they arent, I guess you dont need to go behind them, its their happiness after all.
I have realised that no matter what, it is you who is responsible for all that you have and all that you will have. My happiness cant depend on decisions of others. Not at all. No way.
As they say “You get exactly what is written for you, nothing more or nothing less”. and “If you dont have something, might be you just dont need it right now.”
I have realised that it was what I wanted, all I wanted is to live on my terms and I mean “my” terms. And I am Alhamdulillah doing it and InshaAllah will keep doing it.
Pride and Honor
Tauseef.
Sometimes I think how long we keep on realising the things? Does it end somewhere?
Anyways, I like this quote…“If you dont have something, might be you just dont need it right now.”
Thanks for sharing!!
thank you.
I think it depends on how many things you have lined up to realize, for me it was coming out of loneliness, being happy not having any or many around me. Now I am.
It is eventually that we all want to be happy, just think what all are the things that make you happy.
Well, it is life, for me, my life is like a shop which is all mine, but I have only one each of everything, if I don’t use it at the right time, might be I’l just go out of stock, forever. Its like you only have one each of many things, or i’d rather say everything. Take it and enjoy it.
Hi,
I read your previous posts and I am glad that you have made the ‘choice’ of being happy. Happiness and sadness is a part of life, everyone has his/her share of it. We have to learn lessons from our difficult times and move on. Life is precious and we should treasure each and every moment of it. So smile, forget all worries and enjoy life! (we won’t get a second one)
I’d say. I always wanted to be happy. I was. But I was just trying to find my happiness in others’. I wanted to make others happy. But I guess its true “you cant make everyone happy, you’d lose yours. Its a pretty big world and a there is a lot of variety in people .” “Pehle jeena seeko, phir sikhao”.(Learn to live first and then teach).
Well you see, its just a matter of ‘realizations’ and sometimes its a little late to realize, but as they say “better late than never”.
Thanks for stopping by.